'Others have forced my hand into prematurely revealing my face' (2024)

A high society wedding could be on the cards after the great-great-great granddaughter of John Cadbury who founded the chocolate business revealed she’s found love with an SAS hero.

Tobi-Jayne Cadbury, 34, who lives in near Malvern in Worcestershire, is the great-great-great granddaughter of John Cadbury who founded the confectionery giant, maker of some of the country’s most famous sweets, in Birmingham almost 200 years ago.

She has been dating a retired special forces solider who uses the alias Chris Craighead, 46, for two years and friends say the couple are ‘head over heels in love’ and looking to get married.

Describing herself online as aLawyer, Space Industry Specialist & Consultant, Tobi-Jayne also enjoys photography as a hobby.

Her partner became a legend after he took on twisted fundamentalists who had stormed a luxury hotel complex in Kenya in 2019.

Tobi-Jayne Cadbury, 34, (pictured) has explained that they have been together for 2 years. The heiress said that he had not yet proposed to her but hinted it could be soon

The great-great-great granddaughter of John Cadbury has revealed she's found love with an SAS hero, who goes by the alias Chris Craighead, 46 (right)

The Special Forces veteran, who uses the pseudonym Chris Craighead on Instagram (right) leading Kenyan security forces towards the luxury DusitD2 hotel in Nairobi in 2019 before storming the complex and defeating al-Shabaab terrorists

The al-Shabaab terror group claimed that the attack was a response to US President Donald Trump’s controversial decision to recognise Jerusalem as the capital of Israel. Pictured: Craighead storming the hotel

The Special Forces veteran, who joined the British Army aged 16 in 1992, is best known for single-handedly defeating jihadis during a Nairobi hotel siege which left at least 21 people dead in January 2019.

He was stationed in Kenya to help train the nation’s soldiers when heavily armed jihadis from the al-Shabaab terror group seized the Dusit D2 luxury hotel complex, setting fire to vehicles, detonating explosions and embarking on a mass shooting.

Craighead was out shopping in the city when he heard about the attack and kitted up with equipment in the back of his car before heading to the scene to 'organise the entire operation' directing the police and army, before going in alone to neutralise the enemy and rescue the hostages.

Wearing combat gear over casual jeans and a purple shirt, with his face concealed by a balaclava, he was captured on camera entering the complex in Nairobi and then emerging with terrified survivors.

Chris (pictured) became a legend after he took on twisted fundamentalists who had stormed a luxury hotel complex in Kenya in 2019

He used a modified colt Canada rifle and carried a Glock 9mm side weapon as well as a knife for hand-to-hand combat.

The 19-hour siege left 21 dead, including British charity worker Luke Potter. More than 700 people were evacuated from the complex.

At the time he was dating the White House official photographer Shealah Craighead and he was even pictured meeting President Donald Trump but they have since split and he has now dating Lady Tobi-Jayne Cadbury.

Tobi-Jayne told MailOnline: ‘We are together and we have been for a while. He hasn’t asked me to marry him yet, that’s probably a question you should ask someone else!

‘We met in London a few years ago and I support him anyway I can. We are very happy together and I follow him on Instagram but we are a very private couple. We are happy dating for the time being.’

A pal told: ‘They are a really sweet couple. It’s like a Kingsman movie; a spy marrying an aristocrat. It’s the happiest I have seen Craig in a long time and they are really made for each other.

‘Everyone is delighted for them – and Chris is just so happy, he’s been a bit down ever since the terror attack, but now he seems to have really found himself since getting together with Tobi.’

Chris was off duty in Kenya and teaching local soldiers when al-Shabaab terrorists stormed the DusitD2 hotel complex in the capital Nairobi and pictures at the time showed him masked and carrying an assault rifle as he spoke to security teams before the building was stormed.

Last year he revealed his identity after it emerged Walter Mitty type impersonators were passing themselves off as him in pubs and bars around the SAS HQ at Hereford.

Chris posted on Instagram: ‘I’m doing this earlier than I planned, but the actions of others have forced my hand into prematurely revealing my face.

Last year Chris revealed his identity after it emerged Walter Mitty type impersonators were passing themselves off as him in pubs and bars around the SAS HQ at Hereford

Chris previously dated White House official photographer Shealah Craighead before dating Lady Tobi-Jayne Cadbury, a lawyer (pictured)

‘This photo and others like it are becoming increasingly available, so I thought I should be the one to share the first with you.’

Alongside the picture of him he wrote: ‘Thank you to all those close to me who support, guide, assist, and keep me balanced during this time in my life.’

Newcastle born Chris was awarded 14 medals during his army career which started in 1992 when he joined up at just 16 and he eventually entered service in the SAS.

For his 19 hour bravery in Kenya he was given the Conspicuous Gallantry Cross – Britain’s second highest award for bravery – and he also won an MBE and been mentioned in dispatches countless times.

He had to have his suit specially altered at a Saville Row tailors so he could fit all hid medals on – he said of the Huntsman outfitters, who are featured in Kingsman: ‘They were able to solve the problem of securing my medals by designing a support arm which can be stowed away when medals are not worn.’

In the Kenyan attack he helped lead hundreds of tourists to safety after racing to the scene in his civilian clothes, where he pulled on a combat jacket and went into action with a rifle, pistol and knife.

Chris was there to teach local soldiers special forces tactics and although 21 people were killed he and others were credited with saving hundreds of lives.

His most recent Instagram post – where he describes himself as a ‘retired combat veteran’ and a ‘skilled and relentless good guy’ shows him meeting the Queen and praising her for her Platinum Jubilee.

Tobi, who lives in near Malvern in Worcestershire, is part of the billionaire Cadbury chocolate empire, one of Britain’s oldest and well known confectionary brands

Chris now works promoting veterans charities and is involved with the US based Black Rifle Coffee company

He now works promoting veterans charities and is involved with the US based Black Rifle Coffee company. A source there said: ‘Chris and Tobi really are great guys and they suit each other well.

‘He’s had a tough time the last few years and deserves a bit of good luck, especially after risking his own life to have others in the terrorist attack. He deserves more than just a medal.’

The source added:’ They met in London a couple of years ago, he had not long broken up with Shealah but all of us that know him say this is the happiest we have seen him in years.

‘She’s really good for him but he’s pretty guarded and doesn’t like to talk about his private life.’

The couple met in London two years ago and have admitted that they are very private about their relationship

Tobi, who lives in near Malvern in Worcestershire, is part of the Cadbury family who founded the chocolate empire, one of Britain’s oldest and well known confectionery brands.

The head office of the 200-year-old company is in Uxbridge, west London and their legendary production plant at Bourneville near Birmingham churns out millions of the country’s favourite sweet treats every year including Dairy Milk, Flake and Crème Eggs.

They have had a royal warrant since 1955 and last year were at the centre of controversy after it emerged they had reduced the size of Dairy Milk bars but kept the price the same.

In 2011 they were bought in a hostile takeover by Mondelez International for an eye watering £11.5 billion – almost 200 years after businessman John Cadbury set up a store in Birmingham selling tea, coffee and drinking chocolate.

Tobi added:’ The business was sadly subject to a hostile takeover bid for £12 billion pounds a few years ago and now there is no family involvement anymore, sadly there is no empire. None of the family will inherit the business.’

Last year Mondelez made more than £6.2 billion with sales from Cadbury’s products accounting for more than £1 billion.

'Others have forced my hand into prematurely revealing my face' (2024)

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What does putting your hand on your face mean? ›

noun. the gesture of placing the palm of one's hand across the face, as to express embarrassment, frustration, disbelief, etc. (often used as an interjection): She read the post and comments and did a facepalm. Okay, that was dumb—facepalm! to use this gesture to express such emotions.

What does touching your face mean in body language? ›

Touching Your Face During a Conversation – Face touching, especially on the nose, is commonly interpreted as an indication of deception. Also, covering up the mouth is a common gesture people make when they're lying. Always keep your hands away from your face when you're speaking.

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Instinctively touching the cheek might signal that someone is considering something carefully or has a lot of interest in what you're saying.

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The Eye Rub

When an adult doesn't want to look at something distasteful, the eye rub is likely to occur. Rubbing eyes is the brain's attempt to block out the deceit, doubt or distasteful thing it sees, or to avoid having to look at the face of the person who is being lied to.

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to allow people to know about intentions that you had previously kept secret: Keep the names of the team secret - don't show your hand until the day of the game.

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Every time you touch your face, you are spreading oil from one part of your face to the other. The act of face touching can also clog your pores, which can lead to an outbreak of acne. What's worse than touching your skin? Popping a pimple.

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What does it mean when someone faces away from you? Turning one's back or facing away from someone typically signifies a lack of interest or respect. It can also be a form of passive aggression. In some cases, it may simply indicate that the person is lost in thought or not paying attention.

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Neck rubbing

What It Means: Scratching the neck or rubbing the back of the neck is a self-soothing gesture you might do if you feel uncomfortable. Someone may rub the front, the sides, or the back of their neck to signal they're feeling insecure or stressed.

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Facepalm's meaning online is the same as the physical gesture's meaning in real life — it expresses frustration, disappointment, embarrassment, shock, surprise or sarcasm. Its online use is to portray emotions and feelings that otherwise may not be easily expressed through text alone.

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Interested Gesture - Interested gesture is shown by a closed hand resting on the cheek, often with the index finger pointing upwards. Should the person begin to lose interest but wish to appear interested, for courtesy's sake, the position will alter slightly so that the heel of the palm supports the head.

When people mirror your gestures? ›

Mirroring is the behavior in which one person unconsciously imitates the gesture, speech pattern, or attitude of another. Mirroring often occurs in social situations, particularly in the company of close friends or family.

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“Eye contact is an intimate and vulnerable act, so intense eye contact can be very meaningful,” says Fraley. “Deep eye contact, or holding your gaze for at least four seconds, may indicate feelings of love.” Bonus points if they smile in your presence too.

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He is looking at your lips

If his gaze keeps slipping down to your lips while he's talking to you, it's a sign that he is admiring you, fantasising about you and might even want to start a stable, long-term relationship with you," says Madan.

What does it mean when a guy touches his nose? ›

Nose Touching – Someone may touch or slightly rub their nose if they are doubtful about what is being said or if they are rejecting an idea. Rubbing the nose may also be a sign of deceit because the person is uncomfortable with what they are saying.

What does pressing someone's hand mean? ›

phrase. DEFINITIONS1. to squeeze someone's arm or hand gently as a way of expressing friendship, sympathy, or love. Synonyms and related words. Expressing affection physically.

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noun. an unknown force or influence believed to be the cause of certain, often unfortunate, events.

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Definition of play into (someone's) hands

: to do something that one does not realize will hurt oneself and help someone else You're only playing into your accusers' hands by making accusations in return.

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If you can't see your hand in front of your face, visibility is very poor due to something like bad fog.

What does it mean when a person's hand is placed on the cheek? ›

Interested Gesture - Interested gesture is shown by a closed hand resting on the cheek, often with the index finger pointing upwards. Should the person begin to lose interest but wish to appear interested, for courtesy's sake, the position will alter slightly so that the heel of the palm supports the head.

What does it mean to palm someone's face? ›

Definition of face-palm

intransitive verb. : to cover one's face with the hand as an expression of embarrassment, dismay, or exasperation But her body language was not good from the start on Saturday. She face-palmed after missing one forehand early, then shook her head after another errant shot.— Jeff Hartsell.

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Stroking the chin is often a signal that the person is thinking hard. He may well be judging or evaluating something, particularly if the conversation has offered him an option or a decision to make. Holding.

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