19 Top Positive Psychology Exercises for Clients or Students (2024)

19 Top Positive Psychology Exercises for Clients or Students (1)Humans are hardwired to pay attention to negative experiences.

We have a propensity to attend to, learn from, and use negative information far more than positive information.

As such, many clients are unaware of what influences the happiness in their life from one day to the next. At the heart of positive psychology lies the belief that people can lead happier, more meaningful, and fulfilling lives by moving their focus away from the negative towards a more balanced perspective.

The wealth of research-based exercises available ensures that practitioners have a unique opportunity to help clients experience more pleasure, meaning, and fulfillment.

Many positive psychology exercises are considered classics – and for good reason. While activities such as gratitude journaling and loving-kindness meditation have been shown time and again to lead to positive outcomes, the goal of this article is to provide a variety of new and novel ways to include positive psychology in your work with clients.

The following exercises can be incorporated into several therapeutic settings to help your clients experience the fundamental pillars of positive psychology: the good life, the pleasant life, and the meaningful life.

Before you read on, we thought you might like to download our 3 Positive Psychology Exercises for free. These science-based exercises will explore fundamental aspects of positive psychology including strengths, values and self-compassion and will give you the tools to enhance the wellbeing of your clients, students or employees.

This Article Contains:

  • Exercise 1: Self-Care Vision Board
  • Exercise 2: The Guest House Poem
  • Exercise 3: The Passengers on a Bus Metaphor
  • Exercise 4: Sensory Awareness
  • Exercise 5: Positive Reminiscence
  • Exercise 6: Gratitude by Mental Elimination
  • Exercise 7: The Self-Compassion Pause
  • Exercise 8: Benefit Finding
  • Exercise 9: Strengths-based Life Story
  • Exercise 12: Daily Motivational Awareness
  • Exercise 13: Writing About Intensely Positive Experiences
  • Exercise 14: The Signature Strengths Action Plan
  • Exercise 15: Finding Your Own Example of Forgiveness
  • Exercise 16: Colored Candy Go Around
  • Exercise 17: Progressive Muscle Relaxation Exercise for Children
  • Exercise 18: The Quicksand Anxiety Metaphor
  • Exercise 19: Last Impressions
  • More Exercises from the Positive Psychology Blog
  • A Take-Home Message
  • References

Exercise 1: Self-Care Vision Board

Keywords: Self-care, self-compassion, creativity, inspiration
Treatment Modality: Individual clients and groups
Time: 60 minutes
Goal: To increase self-compassion through fun and playful creativity.

Self-care is the deliberate practice of activities that ‘take care’ of mental, emotional, and physical health (find 26 mental health exercises here). The ability to attend to and meet personal needs through self-care has been found to increase empathy, immunologic functioning, and has been associated with lower levels of anxiety and depression (Schure, Christopher, & Christopher, 2008).

According to Baker (2003), self-care activities also have the potential to improve self-awareness, self-regulation, coping, and balancing of self and others.

Instructions
Clients should think of as many potential self-care activities as possible, making sure only to include activities they would enjoy completing and that fit with their lifestyle and values. For each activity listed, clients should then find inspiring and positive images and brainstorm words and phrases that correspond with their chosen self-care activities.

Clients can then assemble their vision board and place it in a prominent, visible location to act as a visual representation that reflects ideas for self-care and as a motivator to improve and implement self-care.

You can access a comprehensive rundown of this exercise and practical practitioner advice on the Self-Care Vision Board as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Exercise 2: The Guest House Poem

Keywords: Acceptance, negative emotions, mindfulness, emotional intelligence
Treatment Modality: Individual clients or groups
Time: 30 minutes
Goal: To emphasize that emotions are fleeting, and even unpleasant emotions can have value.

The Guest House poem is a method of explaining mindfulness and the importance of acknowledging and accepting unpleasant emotions. According to Eisenberg et al. (1997), emotion suppression has been associated with both psychological and physiological health detriment.

Indeed, Hayes, Pistorello, & Levin (2012) suggested that attempts to control uncomfortable thoughts, feelings, and emotions by deliberate avoidance are at the core of many psychological problems.

When clients mask their emotional experiences or try to push unpleasant emotions away, they can return amplified. However, by welcoming them as visitors, the intensity and impact of those emotions can be reduced. In the poem, being human is like being a guest house, and emotions are personified as temporary visitors that should be welcomed even if they are unpleasant.

The poem can also be used to explain to clients that emotions are not permanent residents in their guest house; instead, they are transient visitors who can be welcomed, stay for a while, and then leave.

The Guest House by Jelaluddin Rumi

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
Meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whatever comes.
Because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.

Reflection Questions

  • How do you interpret the poem?
  • What emotions visit you most often? Why do you think that is?
  • How might it affect you if you welcomed all your emotions rather than denying them?
  • What benefits could there be in welcoming unpleasant emotions?
  • Can you relate to the feeling described in the line “violently sweeps your house empty of its furniture”? Have you ever felt this way?
  • How might you apply the message of The Guest House to your everyday life?

Exercise 3: The Passengers on a Bus Metaphor

Keywords: Values, acceptance, emotions, self-criticism
Treatment Modality: Individual clients or groups
Time: 10 minutes for individual clients/30-40 minutes for groups
Goal: To show clients the ways in which thoughts, feelings, emotions, and memories seem to drive their lives.

Metaphors are efficient, meaningful ways to communicate about experiences and fill the experiential gap between what is or has been, and what can be (Burns, 2017). Within the therapeutic context, metaphors have the express purpose of assisting clients in reaching their goals effectively and efficiently.

The Passengers on the Bus metaphor describes the ways internal experiences seemingly drive our lives. The metaphor can be used to demonstrate the possibility of a life in which such experiences do not determine decisions; rather, they are accepted and sit in the mind temporarily like passengers on a bus.

Passengers on a Bus Metaphor
You are the driver of a bus, the bus symbolizes your mind, and your thoughts are represented by passengers. On your journey, some passengers sit quietly while others make critical and distracting comments, or shout directions as you drive.

You can choose how you react to the passengers just as you can decide how to respond to critical thoughts. You can allow those passengers to shout and chatter noisily, while still keeping your attention focused on the journey towards your goal.

The Passengers on a Bus metaphor can be reintroduced if a client experiences thoughts, feelings, or behaviors during subsequent sessions that may impede or challenge their progress. Referring to the metaphor, the practitioner might ask, “Which passenger is being intrusive and distracting?”

You can access The Passengers on the Bus Group Activity in the Positive Psychology Toolkit©. Adapted for use with groups, this exercise includes details on how to best set up the exercise, three different scenarios for clients to consider, and evaluation questions.

Exercise 4: Sensory Awareness

Keywords: Positive experiences, awareness, savoring, mindfulness
Treatment Modality: Groups
Time: 45 minutes
Goal: To help clients identify experiences from which they derive pleasure, comfort, and enjoyment through each of their five senses.

Sensory awareness is more than merely responding to experiences; instead, it is engaging with – and paying attention to – current sensory information. According to Jones (2011), mindful practices nurture the ability to bring sensory experiences to the forefront of consciousness.

In doing so, space is created in the mind that allows us to stop and smell the roses. Moments of intimacy, the sound of a flowing river, the view of a dramatic landscape, or even reading a good book, can all be immensely gratifying and comforting.

Instructions
Create five columns on a piece of paper, labeling each with one of the five senses: touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound. Clients should then take 15-20 minutes to think about and write down the experiences that give them pleasure through each of their senses.

On completion of this step, clients should regroup and discuss how specific experiences give them pleasure.

Reflection Questions:

  • Were you surprised by anything you thought to add to your lists?
  • Are your lists extremely long or short? Why do you think that is?
  • Which of the items on your list do you experience every day?
  • Do any experiences provide pleasure, comfort, or enjoyment in more than one category?
  • How can you increase the number of experiences that give you pleasure, comfort, and enjoyment?
  • Can you commit to experiencing at least one source of sensual pleasure from each sense every day?

Exercise 5: Positive Reminiscence

Keywords: Savoring, strengths, positive emotions, confidence building
Treatment Modality: Individual clients
Time: 5-10 minutes
Goal: To help clients cultivate positive emotions through savoring.

Savoring is the awareness of pleasure and the ability to acknowledge, appreciate, and enhance positive experiences. A complementary counterpart to coping, savoring can help clients endure negative life experiences (Bryant & Veroff, 2006). When clients learn to savor the small pleasures in life through deliberate focus, they begin to recognize and retain the good feelings associated with those experiences.

The Positive Reminiscence exercise can help clients develop the skill of savoring and build positive emotions by reliving a positive event from their past. You can access this exercise as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Instructions
During the exercise, clients should take time to think about an event from their past that evokes positive emotions, visualize the event in as much detail as possible, and focus on the pleasant feelings that were experienced at the time.

The client’s focus should be on reliving the experience to increase both the duration and intensity of positive emotions.

Exercise 6: Gratitude by Mental Elimination

Keywords: Gratitude, mindfulness, awareness
Treatment Modality: Individual clients
Time: 5-15 minutes
Goal: To help clients avoid taking things for granted and increase gratitude.

According to Koo, Algoe, Wilson, & Gilbert (2008), affective states are improved to a greater extent after mentally removing positive events when compared to actively thinking about the presence of those events. Simply put, mentally deleting a positive event can help remind clients of how fortunate they are and how life could be if that event never happened.

To begin the Gratitude by Mental Elimination exercise, ask the client to think about something good in their life right now and then take a moment to imagine what life would be like without that one good thing. Clients should then write down the ways in which their life would be different without this one good thing.

You can access the full exercise as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Exercise 7: The Self-Compassion Pause

Keywords: Positive emotions, self-talk, self-compassion, homework
Treatment Modality: Individual clients
Time: 1-3 minutes
Goal: To create a more self-compassionate attitude and reaction in difficult times.

Clients who are high in self-compassion treat themselves with kindness and concern when they experience negative events (Batts Allen & Leary, 2010). Further, practicing self-compassion may allow clients to access positive emotions more easily and improve measures of life satisfaction, social connectedness, and subjective wellbeing (Leary, Tate, Adam, Allen, & Hanco*ck, 2007).

The Self-Compassion Pause can be used as a starting point to help clients create a more self-compassionate attitude. This technique works best as a homework exercise in day-to-day encounters when clients are aware that they are experiencing some form of suffering, like stress or discomfort.

Instructions
Invite clients to pause for a moment and focus on their breathing as they inhale and exhale. Next, clients should place their hands on their body – reminding themselves that while this is a difficult moment, suffering is a part of life. It can be beneficial for clients to create soothing phrases that are personal and meaningful to them, such as “I accept myself as I am” or “May I forgive myself for this mistake just as I would forgive others.”

You can find a more detailed breakdown of the Self-Compassion Pause exercise, including practical guidance and background information as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Exercise 8: Benefit Finding

Keywords: Resilience, positive emotions, trauma, reflection
Treatment Modality: Individual clients
Time: 10-15 minutes
Goal: To help clients focus on the positive characteristics of negative life events.

Finding positives from a traumatic event can result in a number of positive long-term effects. For instance, understanding that challenging life events can be beneficial has been shown to enhance resilience, spirituality, relationship strength, compassion, and create a new sense of purpose (Affleck & Tennen, 1996).

Instructions
Invite the client to talk about a traumatic event for a few minutes, encouraging the free expression of any and all emotions and thoughts they have about the experience.

On completion of this step, the client’s attention should then be focused on the positive aspects of the experience. The practitioner may guide this step by asking questions such as, “What has the experience taught you?” and “How has the experience made you better equipped to meet similar challenges in the future?”

During this exercise, the client will be asked to recall a traumatic life event that may trigger negative thoughts and feelings. As such, it is advisable to follow the advice and guidance provided as part of the Benefit Finding exercise, which can be found in the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Exercise 9: Strengths-based Life Story

Keywords: Strengths, meaning, and value
Treatment Modality: Individual clients and groups
Time: Clients should be allowed enough time to complete each section in detail
Goal: To help clients find meaning and value from their own experiences by exploring their strengths.

Strength estrangement is a lack of awareness of one’s strengths, or a lack of direction in using one’s strengths (Jones-Smith, 2013). Strengths-based life stories can help clients locate the source of their strengths, utilize them to achieve desired goals, and develop a sense of meaning and fulfillment.

During this activity, you will ask clients to write their life story in three parts: the past, present, and future. Clients can be creative, but it is important to emphasize that their focus should be on their strengths in each of the three sections. Upon completion, clients should share what they’ve written for each part of their life story with the rest of the group or with the practitioner.

Instructions/Writing Prompts
The Past: Write the story of your past. Be sure to describe the challenges you have overcome, and the personal strengths that allowed you to do so.

The Present: Describe your life and who you are right now. How do you differ from your past self? What are your strengths now? How have your strengths evolved? What challenges are you facing? How can you use your strengths to overcome these challenges?

The Future: Write about your ideal future. How will your life be different than it is now? How can you use your strengths to achieve this ideal future? How will your strengths grow? What kind of person do you hope to become? How will you be different than you are now? What would you like to achieve? Finally, how can you go about achieving these things?

Exercise 10: Strengths & Values-based Introductions

Keywords: Communication, values, strengths, team-building
Treatment Modality: Groups
Time: 10 minutes per client
Goal: To introduce clients to each other in a meaningful way by sharing information about their strengths and values.

The Strengths & Values-based Introductions exercise can act as a motivator and builder of trust among group members, providing clients with an opportunity to get to know one another deeply in a short amount of time.

This strengths-based approach allows clients to tell and retell their stories and, with the therapist’s guidance, reintegrate parts of the self that might have slipped from their awareness due to cognitive rigidities or relational insecurities (Rashid, 2014).

In this exercise, clients are invited to highlight their strengths and values through storytelling and to draw parallels from their story to their current life situations. In the process, clients can develop a deeper understanding of their strengths and values in the context of their narratives.

You can access the Strengths & Values-based Introductions exercise as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©, where you will also find suggested prompts and guidance questions, advice, and methods to manage common barriers.

Exercise 11: Important, Enjoyable & Meaningful Activities

Keywords: Happiness, pleasure, meaning, homework
Treatment Modality: Individual clients or groups
Time: Dependent on activities carried out by clients
Goal: To help clients find meaning through enjoyable activities.

Meaning in life is an essential facet of psychological wellbeing with significant implications for both mental and physical health. According to Clarke (1991), the meaning we attribute to our lives is derived in great part through meaningful activity. Similarly, Seligman (2002) suggested that a state of happiness is attainable only through activities that are consistent with noble and meaningful purposes.

When clients focus on activities that benefit others and utilize their unique strengths, they can transcend to higher planes of authentic happiness (Seligman, 2002). In a nutshell, to find meaning in one’s life, one must first take part in meaningful activities.

Instructions
In this exercise, clients are invited to complete three important, enjoyable, and meaningful activities in a single day and write about them in detail. These acts should include:

  1. A pleasurable activity carried out alone (for example, reading or listening to music)
  2. A pleasurable activity completed with others (for example, playing cards or meeting for lunch)
  3. A meaningful or important act (for example, visiting an isolated relative).

Exercise 12: Daily Motivational Awareness

Keywords: Motivation, awareness, action
Treatment Modality: Individual client
Time: 5 minutes
Goal: To help clients to develop and increase awareness of their motivation in daily life.

To begin the Daily Motivational Awareness exercise, clients should take a few moments throughout the day to think about the things that excite and motivate them to action, then write them down. In doing so, clients have the opportunity to refer back to the activity and reflect upon the extent to which their motivation is self-determined.

The exercise can also be used less formally, for instance, by asking the client to set timers a few times each day and merely doing the exercise without recording the observations.

You can access the exercise as well as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Read More: 17 Motivation Tools, Worksheets and Activities for You and Your Clients

Exercise 13: Writing About Intensely Positive Experiences

Keywords: Reflective writing, self-reflection, happiness, homework
Treatment Modality: Individual client
Time: 5-10 minutes
Goal: To help clients improve their mood by writing about positive experiences and happy moments over three consecutive days.

Writing about intensely positive experiences can result in robust improvements in a variety of indicators of wellbeing. For instance, positive emotional writing has been shown to enhance positive mood, reduce state anxiety, trait anxiety, and perceived stress while also positively contributing to client coping skills (Burton & King, 2004; Isen, 2001).

Instructions
Every day for three days, clients are instructed to choose a positive experience from their life, imagine themselves in that moment, and think about the feelings and emotions that they experienced. Clients should write about their experiences in as much detail as possible, paying particular attention to the positive feelings, thoughts, and emotions that were present at the time.

You can access the full Writing About Intensely Positive Experiences exercise as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.

Exercise 14: The Signature Strengths Action Plan

Keywords: Strengths, goals, homework
Treatment Modality: Individual clients
Time: 30 minutes
Goal: To help clients use their signature strengths to achieve a desired goal.

Clients should take the VIA Character Strengths Survey before working on their action plan (find more positive psychology surveys here).

According to Seligman (2019), one of the most effective ways to develop and enhance signature strengths is to identify one target strength, set a specific and measurable goal related to that strength, and devise a concrete action plan to achieve the goal.

For instance, a client might select curiosity as a target strength and plan to take part in activities that challenge their existing knowledge and skills. Likewise, a client who wishes to focus on the love of learning could aim to learn five new words, including their meaning and usage each week.

Instructions
Clients should pick one of their top five strengths and write down their answers to the following questions:

  • How do I use this strength already?
  • In what areas of my life do I use this strength?
  • What other areas in my life could I use it more?
  • What are other ways I could use this strength?
  • What is my plan? What exactly would I like to do? How frequently?
  • When will this happen?
  • What will happen if I achieve my goals?

Exercise 15: Finding Your Own Example of Forgiveness

Keywords: Forgiveness, benefit finding
Treatment Modality: Individual clients
Time: 20 minutes
Goal: To help clients focus on the benefits of forgiveness.

Seligman & Csikszentmihalyi (2000) identified forgiveness as a key positive individual trait. Indeed, several studies indicate that individuals with a propensity for forgiveness show signs of better physical and psychological health. For instance, Berry, Worthington, O’Connor, Parrott, & Wade (2005) found that forgiveness had beneficial effects on systolic blood pressure, diastolic blood pressure, and mean arterial pressure.

Additionally, forgiveness is negatively related to psychological distress and positively associated with life satisfaction and relationship health (Toussaint, Williams, Musick, & Everson, 2001).

Instructions
To begin this exercise, invite clients to describe a story of forgiveness – this could be from a children’s story, fable, or movie plot. Clients should then explain why they think the offender committed the transgression and why the victim chose to forgive.

Ask the client to write down the ways in which the victim may have benefitted from the act of forgiveness. The client should then think about a time when they forgave someone and write down the benefits they experienced.

This exercise is adapted from Five Steps to Forgiveness: The Art and Science of Forgiving (Worthington, 2001).

Exercise 16: Colored Candy Go Around

Keywords: Communication, play, engagement
Treatment Modality: Families
Goal: To encourage communication and provide insight into individual and family dynamics.

When families engage in play-based therapeutic activities, they are provided with opportunities to communicate and articulate thoughts and feelings that they may not be comfortable expressing through traditional techniques (Lowenstein, 2010). The Colored Candy Go Around exercise (Arkell, 2010) is a playful and creative way to engage family members, particularly in the early stages of family therapy.

To begin this exercise, the practitioner should distribute 10-15 colored candies (or colored beads if this is preferred) to each family member. Each color represents a specific question, for example:

Green – What words describe yourself or your family?
Pink – What ways do you have fun as a family?
Orange – What things would you like to change about yourself or your family?
Red – What things do you worry about?
Yellow – What things do you like about your family?

Next ask family members to sort their candies by color and invite one person to pick a color at random, stating verbally how many candies of that color they have in front of them (for example, four yellow candies). This family member must then give four answers to the corresponding question; in this case, four things they like about their family.

They can then choose the next family member who will give their answer to the same question, and so on until each person has responded to all of the questions.

(Note that the questions and areas of focus can be tailored to suit each family’s needs).

Reflection Questions

  • Were you surprised by any of your family’s answers?
  • What did you learn about your family that you were not aware of before this exercise?
  • What actions will you take in the coming week to have more fun with your family?
  • What actions can you take as an individual to make changes or improvements?
  • What actions can you take as a family to make changes or improvements?

This exercise is adapted from Creative Family Therapy Techniques: Play and Art-based Activities to Assess and Treat Families (Lowenstein, 2010).

Exercise 17: Progressive Muscle Relaxation Exercise for Children

Keywords: Coping, relaxation, stress
Treatment Modality: Children and families
Time: 10 minutes
Goal: To guide young children through the process of progressive muscle relaxation.

Relaxation training can be a useful tool to help clients and patients cope with everyday stressors.

Stressful situations reflexively cause the entire skeletal musculature to react immediately, often resulting in prolonged, heightened tension, and a variety of pathological conditions (Smith, 2007).

Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and relaxing various muscles throughout the body as a way to reduce or eliminate tension and is an effective way to manage stress in children who may have difficulties concentrating on traditional relaxation techniques. The following exercise can be used to help guide children through the process of progressive muscle relaxation.

Instructions
To begin this exercise, you should ask the child if they can think of a situation that makes them feel worried or nervous. If they are not forthcoming with a situation, the therapist can utilize prompts such as, “How about when you have a big test?” or “How about when someone shouts at you?”, and explain that these are all times when they can use this exercise.

Transcript:
“Let’s do this together; I’ll show you how. Start with your left hand and arm. Take a deep breath and pretend you are squeezing a lemon in your hand. Squeeze it as hard as you can. Imagine you are trying to squeeze all the juice out. [Hold for 5 seconds]. Now pretend you have dropped the lemon on the floor and think or say ‘relax.’, then let your deep breath out and unclench your fist.”

“Feel that relaxed feeling in your left hand and arm. Now, let’s tense that same muscle again.” [Repeat the same process a second time].

The therapist then guides the child through two sets of deep muscle relaxation of the following muscle groups:

  1. Right hand and arm, as above.
  2. Arms and shoulders, by stretching the arms out in front, then over the head, and finally relaxed by their side.
  3. Shoulder and neck, by pulling the shoulders up to the ears and the head down into the shoulders, like a big shrug.
  4. Jaw, by biting down hard on the teeth.
  5. Face and nose, by wrinkling the nose.
  6. Stomach, by tightening it very tight and making the stomach very hard.
  7. Legs and feet, by pushing down on the floor hard with toes spread apart.
  8. Now pretend that you’re a rag doll, and let your entire body go limp. Notice how good it feels to be relaxed.

You can modify the script to make this exercise more fun by asking the child to imagine themselves as a sleepy cat who needs to stretch his legs, or picture themselves squishing their toes deep into a muddy puddle.

This exercise was adapted from Assessing and Treating Physically Abused Children and Their Families (Kolko & Cupit Swenson, 2002).

Exercise 18: The Quicksand Anxiety Metaphor

Keywords: Acceptance, mindfulness, anxiety
Treatment Modality: Children and families
Time: 10 minutes
Goal: To illustrate the drawbacks of experiential avoidance and the benefits of acceptance and mindfulness for anxiety.

The quicksand metaphor can help clients explore their methods of coping with difficult and unchangeable situations. In doing so, they can begin to understand how their efforts to avoid or escape such experiences may result in becoming even more entangled in it (Stoddard & Afari, 2014).

Put simply, someone struggling to escape quicksand may not realize that the best course of action would be to come into full contact with the quicksand and ‘get with it’ rather than fight against it.

Instructions
“You are walking in the desert and, suddenly, you step in quicksand and quickly begin to sink. What do you do now?”

You can direct the client’s attention toward his or her reactions as their story unfolds. For instance, a more experiential response can be encouraged by asking, “What happens as you try to escape the quicksand?” or “What are the thoughts that come to your mind as you keep sinking?”

After exploring the quicksand metaphor with the client, the practitioner can encourage further discussion by combining the vocabulary of both the metaphorical and actual situations. For instance, “What do you do when you start sinking in your anxiety?”

Throughout this exercise, it is preferable to avoid stating that struggling with quicksand is like struggling with anxiety – in doing so the client may learn through rules rather than through experience (Stoddard & Afari, 2014).

Exercise 19: Last Impressions

Keywords: Celebrating success, value, positive acknowledgment
Treatment Modality: Individual client and groups
Time: 5 minutes
Goal: To end sessions with clients on a positive note.

Emotional states influence the recall of experiences with similar emotional tones (Tyng, Amin, Saad, & Malik, 2017). When people are feeling positive, they tend to recall pleasant events and vice versa. Further, Redelmeier & Kahneman (1996) found that the last thing that happens in an experience tends to color the memory of the whole experience. It is therefore vital to end sessions with clients on a positive note.

According to Lasley (2015), an effective way to end sessions is by celebrating client successes – no matter how small – and acknowledging their value. To do so successfully, the practitioner must:

  1. Deliver the acknowledgment.
  2. Listen for the impact.
  3. Follow up if the client did not understand the acknowledgment or only received it partially.

Instructions
To carry out this exercise, the practitioner should write a list of positive acknowledgments that can be given to clients verbally at the end of each session. While it is a good idea to make these statements specific and relevant to each of your clients, the following suggestions are a good starting point:

  • “You sound very connected to your values, and you’re honoring them fully. Well done for stepping out of your comfort zone.”
  • “You made excellent progress during the session, particularly [talk about specific insight or achievement].”
  • “Your commitment to growth is unwavering.”
  • “I want to acknowledge the way you are taking responsibility by acting on what matters most to you.”
  • “I am struck by your courage and your ability to ___.”
  • “I believe in your ability to overcome this challenge.”
  • “I feel grateful that you shared your true feelings.”

More Exercises from the Positive Psychology Blog

Check out this article, for more compassion-focused exercises to include in your work with clients.

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Our Positive Psychology Toolkit© contains over 400 science-based positive psychology exercises, interventions, questionnaires and assessments for practitioners like you to use in your therapy, coaching or workplace.

Access a selection of positive psychology group exercises designed to increase positive feelings, behaviors, and cognitions.

This article provides an overview of five practical positive psychotherapy exercises.

For tips and exercises related to forgiveness, check out our article on the topic.

If the above is not enough, we even share free positive psychology PDF’s in this article.

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A Take-Home Message

As a practitioner, you have a unique opportunity to help clients experience more meaning and fulfillment in their lives. I hope that the resources included in this article will help you to promote positive changes in individual clients, families, and groups.

Have you used any of these exercises in your work with clients? Leave a comment below; we would love to hear about your experiences.

We hope you enjoyed reading this article. Don’t forget to download our 3 Positive Psychology Exercises for free.

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FAQs

What are examples of positive psychology interventions? ›

Positive psychology interventions involve doing activities which promote wellbeing and happiness. Some examples of activities are counting acts of kindness you see others do, writing about positive experiences, goal setting, practising optimistic thinking, and socialising with other people.

What are the 5 ways to practice positive psychology? ›

5 positive psychology strategies that you can implement today to improve your overall wellbeing:
  • Prioritise close relationships. Your income has a surprisingly small impact on your experience of happiness. ...
  • Cultivate kindness. ...
  • Find your “flow” ...
  • Express Gratitude. ...
  • Discover your strengths.

What are 3 ways or techniques to practice positive psychology? ›

Ways to use positive psychology in your everyday life
  • Snap pictures of things you're grateful for and take a few minutes daily to look through your virtual photo gratitude journal.
  • Prayer.
  • Volunteer or giving back to your community.
  • Write a thank you note.
  • Spend time in nature and appreciating its wonder and beauty.
28 Sept 2018

What are positive activities? ›

We define positive activities as simple, intentional, and regular practices meant to mimic the myriad healthy thoughts and behaviors associated with naturally happy people. The efficacy of numerous positive activities for improving well-being has now been tested empirically.

What are some therapy activities? ›

Deal with emotions like anger and sadness through these helpful exercises.
  • Draw or paint your emotions. ...
  • Create an emotion wheel. ...
  • Make a stress painting. ...
  • Put together a journal. ...
  • Make sock puppets. ...
  • Use line art. ...
  • Design a postcard you will never send. ...
  • Create a sculpture of your anger.
14 Nov 2018

What are psychosocial techniques? ›

The term psychosocial refers to an individual's psychological development in and interaction with their social environment. Psychosocial treatments (interventions) include structured counseling, motivational enhancement, case management, care-coordination, psychotherapy and relapse prevention.

How many positive psychology interventions are there? ›

Scope and Flexibility of Positive Psychology Interventions

In 2005, Duckworth, Steen, and Seligman declared the existence of at least a hundred positive psychological interventions. Later, Sin and Lyubomirsky (2009) conducted a meta-analysis of fifty-one PPIs that were studied scientifically.

How is positive psychology used in schools? ›

Positive psychology interventions are used to enhance mental health and empower educational staff and learners at schools (Shoshani & Steinmetz, 2014). School-based positive psychology interventions (PPIs) are initiatives which aim to enhance well-being, and to build competence and strengths within school settings.

What are the 3 pillars of positive psychology? ›

The Three Pillars: Positive Psychology has three central concerns: positive experiences, positive individual traits, and positive institutions.

How do you increase happiness in positive psychology? ›

Some strategies for increasing happiness in your life:

Take time to build quality relationships with supportive people. Count your blessings and practice gratitude. Take time to engage in random acts of kindness. Respond actively and constructively, celebrating when others share good news with you.

How do you grow positive psychology? ›

So let's talk about how to cultivate a more positive mindset.
  1. Focus on Your Strengths. ...
  2. Practice Gratitude. ...
  3. Focus on Your Positive Qualities. ...
  4. Practice Self-Compassion. ...
  5. Practice Self-Care. ...
  6. Shift Your Attention. ...
  7. Be More Optimistic. ...
  8. Try Loving-Kindness Meditation.
19 May 2021

What are the five main components of life satisfaction? ›

That research found that people's level of satisfaction with 5 elements of well-being (career status, social status, financial status, physical health, and community support) differentiate between people who are thriving and those who are suffering.

What is the most effective way to manage stress? ›

Healthy Ways to Cope with Stress
  1. Take breaks from watching, reading, or listening to news stories, including those on social media. ...
  2. Take care of yourself. ...
  3. Take care of your body. ...
  4. Make time to unwind. ...
  5. Talk to others. ...
  6. Connect with your community- or faith-based organizations.
  7. Avoid drugs and alcohol.

How do positive psychology interventions work? ›

Positive Psychological Interventions (PPIs) are theoretically-grounded and empirically validated instructions, activities, and recommendations designed to enhance well-being (Lomas, Hefferon & Ivtzan, 2014). Moreover, PPIs focus on using positive emotions and strengths to achieve or boost wellbeing.

What activities can increase happiness? ›

Activities that make you happy
  • Exercise. You have probably heard that sport and physical activity releases endorphins in your body. ...
  • Perform Altruistic Acts of Kindness. ...
  • Spend your money right. ...
  • Meditate. ...
  • Find Something to Look Forward To. ...
  • Do something you're good at.

What activities lead to happiness? ›

Here are five free activities Whillans suggests doing that take no more than 10 minutes and can increase your happiness.
  • Organize your errands (5 minutes) ...
  • Message someone important (5 minutes) ...
  • Check your vacation day balance (5 minutes) ...
  • Watch relaxing nature videos (up to 10 minutes)
2 Feb 2021

How do you train your mind to think positive thoughts? ›

How to think positive thoughts
  1. Focus on the good things. Challenging situations and obstacles are a part of life. ...
  2. Practice gratitude. ...
  3. Keep a gratitude journal.
  4. Open yourself up to humor. ...
  5. Spend time with positive people. ...
  6. Practice positive self-talk. ...
  7. Identify your areas of negativity. ...
  8. Start every day on a positive note.
21 Feb 2019

How do you make a therapy session fun? ›

Well here are my top resources for making speech therapy more fun.
  1. Incorporate Some Movement! Kids love to move. ...
  2. Play Games. Spice up your speech therapy sessions with some fun games. ...
  3. Choose Themed Activities. ...
  4. Get Buy-In From the Child. ...
  5. Try Some Crafts. ...
  6. Do Something Fun While Drilling Flashcards.
5 Nov 2021

How do you build rapport with child clients? ›

Strategies to help you develop a collaborative style to interact with child clients include:
  1. actively engaging clients in verbal give-and-take.
  2. actively encouraging children to have their full say.
  3. staying open to and encouraging questions and negotiation.
  4. providing clear explanations and rationale behind legal advice.

What are examples of psychosocial challenges? ›

Psychosocial Challenges
  • Heightened health anxiety. Encourage developmentally appropriate communication with children about emotions and concerns.
  • Disrupted routines. Establish predictable new routines.
  • School closures. ...
  • Family stress/risk of domestic violence. ...
  • Reduced physical and psychosocial support.

What are examples of psychosocial needs? ›

Psychosocial care and support issues

Examples of psychosocial issues paramedics have encountered include loneliness, anxiety, fear, grief, depression, neglect, abuse, self-care issues, care of pets, loss of confidence, and lack of social and support networks.

Is Mindfulness a positive psychology intervention? ›

Theoretically and empirically, mindfulness is found to be connected with a number of positive psychology variables. Different MBIs often focus on a specific aspect such as compassion, relaxation, and cognitive skills.

How is positive psychology used today? ›

Positive psychology can be applied to children and adults in educational settings and mental health facilities, as well as in private counseling practices. There is also a place for positive psychology outside the realm of therapeutic practice, such as in human resource management and business administration.

What is positive psychology PDF? ›

Positive psychology is the scientific study of human strengths and virtues. It uses psychological theory, scientific research and evidence-based interventions to understand and improve human well-being.

What are the four strands of positive psychology? ›

They are 4 strands that unite on positive development resilience refers to bouncing back in terms of adapting in a diversity situation and development asset developing a positive relationship and failure to success their emotional social-emotional learning promoting social and emotional well-being subjective well-being ...

How do you create a positive classroom environment? ›

Seven Strategies for Building Positive Classrooms
  1. Abstract.
  2. Make Learning Relevant.
  3. Create a Classroom Code of Conduct.
  4. Teach Positive Actions.
  5. Instill Intrinsic Motivation.
  6. Reinforce Positive Behaviors.
  7. Engage Positive Role Models.
  8. Always Be Positive.

What does a positive learning environment look like? ›

Characteristics of a nurturing, healthy learning environment for students include: (1) psychological safety, (2) a positive self- image, (3) feelings of belonging, (4) purposeful behavior, and (5) a sense of personal competence.

What key theory is positive psychology based on? ›

Positive psychology is a relatively new form of psychology. It emphasizes the positive influences in a person's life. These might include character strengths, optimistic emotions, and constructive institutions. This theory is based on the belief that happiness is derived from both emotional and mental factors.

Who is father of personality? ›

Gordon Allport, in full Gordon Willard Allport, (born November 11, 1897, Montezuma, Indiana, U.S.—died October 9, 1967, Cambridge, Massachusetts), American psychologist and educator who developed an original theory of personality.

What are the two types of happiness? ›

Psychologists conceive of happiness in two different ways: hedonic happiness, or pleasure and enjoyment, and eudaimonic happiness, or meaning and purpose. Some psychologists champion either a hedonic or an eudaimonic idea of happiness. Most agree, however, that people require both hedonia and eudaimonia to flourish.

What are some strategies to help cultivate positive emotions in your life? ›

Express gratitude
  • Give sincere thanks to others. ...
  • Keep a gratitude journal. ...
  • Count your blessings. ...
  • Write a letter of gratitude. ...
  • Find the positive in a negative event from your past. ...
  • Make a conscious effort to stay connected. ...
  • Invest in quality time with the people you care about. ...
  • Offer sincere compliments.
30 Aug 2022

What is joy in positive psychology? ›

Joy is a distinct positive emotion: Assessment of joy and relationship to gratitude and well-being. The Journal of Positive Psychology, 13(5), 522–539. [Taylor & Francis Online], [Web of Science ®], [Google Scholar]) psychological science, even positive psychology, has largely neglected the systematic study of joy.

What are the basic principles of happiness? ›

Cultivate optimism; visualise a future in which everything has tuned out the way you want it. Regular exercise. Avoid obsessing over things or paying too much attention to what others are doing. Practice acts of kindness; more than you are used to.

What is positive psychology in simple words? ›

1. "Positive psychology is...a call for psychological science and practice to be as concerned with strength as with weakness; as interested in building the best things in life as in repairing the worst; and as concerned with making the lives of normal people fulfilling as with healing pathology," Peterson wrote.

What are positive thoughts examples? ›

Here are some examples of future-focused positive thoughts: “It's all going to turn out fine.” “I can't wait to go to that event next week.” “I will continue to work toward my goals, so I know that my future is going to be great.”

What are the 5 advantages of positive thinking? ›

There are many health benefits of positive thinking in the workplace and in life, let's explore how they affect you in more detail.
  • Increases Your Life Span. ...
  • Supercharges Your Energy. ...
  • Feel More Confident. ...
  • Improve Your Quality of Sleep. ...
  • Lower's Depression Levels. ...
  • Become More Resilient.

What is the most important component of happiness? ›

According to many researchers, strong social relationships are the most important contributor to enduring happiness for most people. Those who are happiest generally devote a great amount of time to their family, friends, and colleagues. They nurture and enjoy those relationships.

How can I be satisfied with what I have? ›

You Can Lead a More Satisfying Life by Making a Few Small Changes
  1. Focus on the positive. ...
  2. Find your stress relief. ...
  3. Don't be afraid to take time for yourself. ...
  4. Take responsibility for your actions. ...
  5. Be more understanding. ...
  6. Re-evaluate your relationships. ...
  7. Live your best life.
12 Dec 2019

What are 10 ways to reduce stress? ›

10 Tips to Manage Stress
  1. 1.Exercise.
  2. 2.Relax Your Muscles.
  3. 3.Deep Breathing.
  4. 4.Eat Well.
  5. 5.Slow Down.
  6. 6.Take a Break.
  7. 7.Make Time for Hobbies.
  8. 8.Talk About Your Problems.
29 Apr 2021

What are the 5 main ways to manage stress? ›

5 tips to manage stress
  • Use guided meditation. Guided meditation is a great way to distract yourself from the stress of day-to-day life. ...
  • Practice deep breathing. ...
  • Maintain physical exercise and good nutrition. ...
  • Manage social media time. ...
  • Connect with others.
10 Dec 2018

What are 5 emotional signs of stress? ›

Mental or behavioral symptoms include:
  • Being more emotional than usual.
  • Feeling overwhelmed or on edge.
  • Trouble keeping track of things or remembering.
  • Trouble making decisions, solving problems, concentrating, getting your work done.
  • Using alcohol or drugs to relieve your emotional stress.
29 Dec 2020

What are the 5 ways to practice positive psychology? ›

5 positive psychology strategies that you can implement today to improve your overall wellbeing:
  • Prioritise close relationships. Your income has a surprisingly small impact on your experience of happiness. ...
  • Cultivate kindness. ...
  • Find your “flow” ...
  • Express Gratitude. ...
  • Discover your strengths.

What are 3 ways or techniques to practice positive psychology? ›

Ways to use positive psychology in your everyday life
  • Snap pictures of things you're grateful for and take a few minutes daily to look through your virtual photo gratitude journal.
  • Prayer.
  • Volunteer or giving back to your community.
  • Write a thank you note.
  • Spend time in nature and appreciating its wonder and beauty.
28 Sept 2018

What are examples of psychological interventions? ›

Examples include helping clients to focus on good things, the future self, gratitude, affirmation of the self and kindness towards others.

What is a psychological exercise? ›

Exercise psychology is an interdisciplinary field of study focused on how physical activity and exercise create psychological responses in people.

How is positive psychology used in therapy? ›

Positive psychology aims to help people identify happiness from moment to moment. It emphasizes this over only appreciating happy moments when looking back on them. People seeking therapy who desire to experience a greater sense of joy and liberation from their current circ*mstances may find this approach helpful.

How can a person develop positive thinking? ›

Following are some ways to think and behave in a more positive and optimistic way:
  • Identify areas to change. ...
  • Check yourself. ...
  • Be open to humor. ...
  • Follow a healthy lifestyle. ...
  • Surround yourself with positive people. ...
  • Practice positive self-talk.

Why is exercise psychology important? ›

Exercise psychology is a discipline used to help people assess where they are at with regards to exercise, define an individualized exercise program, help people deal with the barriers and issues that restrict people's participation in exercise and maximize a person's enjoyment of exercise.

Does exercise increase motivation? ›



This is because exercise promotes the production of the hormones serotonin and norepinephrine, which help relieve feelings of depression. It also increases the production of endorphins which help produce positive feelings, which keeps us motivated [1].

What are the 3 pillars of positive psychology? ›

The Three Pillars: Positive Psychology has three central concerns: positive experiences, positive individual traits, and positive institutions.

What are the four strands of positive psychology? ›

They are 4 strands that unite on positive development resilience refers to bouncing back in terms of adapting in a diversity situation and development asset developing a positive relationship and failure to success their emotional social-emotional learning promoting social and emotional well-being subjective well-being ...

How is positive psychology used in schools? ›

Positive psychology interventions are used to enhance mental health and empower educational staff and learners at schools (Shoshani & Steinmetz, 2014). School-based positive psychology interventions (PPIs) are initiatives which aim to enhance well-being, and to build competence and strengths within school settings.

What is positive psychology in simple words? ›

1. "Positive psychology is...a call for psychological science and practice to be as concerned with strength as with weakness; as interested in building the best things in life as in repairing the worst; and as concerned with making the lives of normal people fulfilling as with healing pathology," Peterson wrote.

What is positive psychology intervention? ›

Positive Psychology Interventions (PPIs) are intentional activities that aim to boost wellbeing, enhance positive feelings, behaviours, or cognitions Sin and Lyubomirsky (2009. (2009). Enhancing well-being and alleviating depressive symptoms with positive psychology interventions: A practice-friendly meta-analysis.

Can positive psychology help anxiety? ›

While positive psychology is not necessarily a replacement for traditional therapy and treatment for depression, anxiety disorders or addiction, it can help to complement treatment and provide new tools for coping with feelings of hopelessness and despair.

What are 5 positive attitudes? ›

5 examples of positive attitudes
  • Changing your perspective. Your perspective has a powerful influence on your life and happiness. ...
  • Smiling and being kind to others. ...
  • Practicing self-compassion. ...
  • Not taking things personally. ...
  • Being happy for others' success.
8 Nov 2021

How do I block negative thoughts? ›

Simple Steps to Stop Negative Thoughts
  1. Pause a Moment. If you are feeling stressed, anxious, or stuck in negative thinking patterns, PAUSE. ...
  2. Notice the Difference. NOTICE the difference between being stuck in your thoughts vs. ...
  3. Label Your Thoughts. ...
  4. Choose Your Intention.
14 Sept 2021

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